My Stay in Charleston and the Dissapointment

I was going to Charleston for an over night trip and I had been on Adam4adam and met this really cute beefy boy. He looked very hot and we talked for a few days and he really wanted to submit to me. Well we talked on the phone and the day before I got there he told me that he had a friend in town, this should have foreshadowed the entire trip. But, he said he could get away.

On the drive there he actually called me and I thought that was a good sign. I told him I have a friend that lives there and I have to do dinner. He said he had to leave around 8 and could come  back at 11. I told him to come over at 5:30 and stay till 7 then come back and it would be perfect.

I got to my hotel checked in and this was the plan. Then nothing. No text back, not answer on his phone so I was pissed. Then he said "oh I didn't get your texts" so I went to dinner and had a great time. This was a friend that I didn't know well but it turned out we have a lot in common. So I took my time at dinner. Now he said before he wanted a guy to come over and suck them off, so I set up a hot muscle guy, that I had to later cancel due to his schedule. So this was pissing me off.

So, I resigned to have him there at 11. He texted me and said that he would be there at 10:45. Well that time came and left. Then he said he would get his friend to drop him off at home and me come there. I"m like FUCKING A, the plan was to come to me and the directions to his house were not clear. I told him no.

So we never met. This just highlights the boys I have run across. They have delusions of being a boy but when it comes down to it, they don't follow through. It's pure fantasy for them. They have no intentions of submitting. It seems to run ramped on the guys I meet. I want to meet a cool guy thats into it. Just I"m more frustrated in myself since I should have seen the signs. But, he went and bought some stuff I like and took pics of it, so I knew he got it.

My Quesiton is how do you find a boy? Even if it's just play. What should I look for and where are good places to find them? Just really frustrated me and annoyed me.