My Stay in Charleston and the Dissapointment

I was going to Charleston for an over night trip and I had been on Adam4adam and met this really cute beefy boy. He looked very hot and we talked for a few days and he really wanted to submit to me. Well we talked on the phone and the day before I got there he told me that he had a friend in town, this should have foreshadowed the entire trip. But, he said he could get away.

On the drive there he actually called me and I thought that was a good sign. I told him I have a friend that lives there and I have to do dinner. He said he had to leave around 8 and could come  back at 11. I told him to come over at 5:30 and stay till 7 then come back and it would be perfect.

I got to my hotel checked in and this was the plan. Then nothing. No text back, not answer on his phone so I was pissed. Then he said "oh I didn't get your texts" so I went to dinner and had a great time. This was a friend that I didn't know well but it turned out we have a lot in common. So I took my time at dinner. Now he said before he wanted a guy to come over and suck them off, so I set up a hot muscle guy, that I had to later cancel due to his schedule. So this was pissing me off.

So, I resigned to have him there at 11. He texted me and said that he would be there at 10:45. Well that time came and left. Then he said he would get his friend to drop him off at home and me come there. I"m like FUCKING A, the plan was to come to me and the directions to his house were not clear. I told him no.

So we never met. This just highlights the boys I have run across. They have delusions of being a boy but when it comes down to it, they don't follow through. It's pure fantasy for them. They have no intentions of submitting. It seems to run ramped on the guys I meet. I want to meet a cool guy thats into it. Just I"m more frustrated in myself since I should have seen the signs. But, he went and bought some stuff I like and took pics of it, so I knew he got it.

My Quesiton is how do you find a boy? Even if it's just play. What should I look for and where are good places to find them? Just really frustrated me and annoyed me.

Bondage Lesson 4, and My Charleston Trip

Well I had lesson 4. Which I found out I"m getting better and better at bondage. Which I"m very happy that I am improving. Sometimes I felt like I wasn't. This time me and limber were joined by Tallboy. My firend who's 6'8'. Which it was awesome to tie up a taller guy. We got him in a hog tie first with a harness and ankles tied up. He was there for a bit. Then we tied up his writs and ankles. He was there a bit but being married he couldn't stay out too long. He did text me this am saying he had a blast. Which I did too. Then after he left, I finally did a tie that limber couldn't get out of. I was so happy!

We are having a break for a bit, he's traveling and so am I, but the other sir teaching me will be back next week and I hope to go over there. So it will be spuratic, but I have found some gay boys to practice on. One when I go to Charleston, he's a kinda beefy shorter guy, which I love and he's new to being a sub. He's going to come to my hotel room and submit. Which is going to be awesome. We chatted this morning and he's already been instructed what to wear, he's going to buy some undies and spandex for me. I can't wait for this. It's going to be awesome, and he comes to town once a month. I need a reg boy.

I also ran across another boy local who I've talked too, he's into spandex suits and we plan to meet up. He's another beefy boy and very submissive. I have sort of run into a lot of gay boys lately. Lastly, is another local guy who's total sub and very cute. He's wanting motivation with work out goals and will start hiking with me as well. We are meeting on Friday.

So far things are going well. I'll keep you posted. I hope to blog more I just haven't been in the mood but I gotta finish the fetishes.

Bondage Lesson 3 Part 1

This is just a preview of the lesson. But I found out some things, I need to make my rope work tighter. I get it too slack. Also, I did some plastic wrap bondage. OMG I loved this, its amazing. It was so much fun and I really loved it. Its just a fun fun way to do it. I can think of this with edging and milking. But it's cheap and fun. I hope to do this a lot more then I did. I am looking forward to meeting more bondage boys!

I will have pics, only three this time and will let you know about it when I get pics!

One of My Fantasies - The Biz Exec

You have seen my fetishes and I will continue to tell you about them over the next week. But, I saw a guy on Dudes Nude yesterday that really brought one of my fantasies back, its the dominating the Biz Exec. You know the type, Type A personality, very demanding, basically a pain in the ass type. These are the people I hate working for, so this fantasy is perfect. 

You know the type, the always motivated, the "In it to Win it" type. Just over the top and wants to be successful at anything he does. He demands more from everyone around him and they are usually cocky as hell. Thinking they are awesome and can do no wrong. 

Well this is the man I want to dominate and tie up. Some of them, not sure how many, love to come home and not have to think about anything and have the Dom take charge. As you know I love a man in a suit and most wear them tailored ot them and usually look fucking amazing on them. 

One of my favorite role plays I've ever done is employee and boss. But its not like you'd expect. Its where the exec calls me into the office and starts going off on how bad I'm doing, how he's going to fire me, etc, you know the usual "we're about to fire you" speech. Then I say you're not going to fire me, and he starts to laugh, then I something like "I've seen the way you've stared at my crotch, and how bad you want to see what's in my pants" As I grab my crotch. He protests and i say well you go in the bathroom when I go, you groped me at the xmas party and stuff like that. He then knows he's busted and tries to get out of it. I stand, grab my crotch and say, I"n not fired you will suck my fucking cock. He laughs, and I walk around the desk, grab his head and shove it in my crotch. He playfully pulls away but then really goes and rubs his face on my crotch. Then I pull my cock out and he licks it like a lollypop, What he doesn't know I start taking pics with my cell phone. He keeps sucking me and pulls out his cock from his suit and he jerks as sucks me, I shoot on his face. 

We sit back down and he says "Even though that happened I'm still going to have to fire you" I pull out the cell and show him the pics and say you fire me I sue for sexual harassment" He looks at me with fright, and I say "I stay hired and you give me a raise, and you keep sucking me or HR and your wife finds out"

Thats just a fantasy. I would love to do some bondage with an exec in his suit. Would I do long term with an exec? I don't know but short term play would be awesome. Men in suits are just fucking HOT. 

Spandex, my third fetish

I will say I have a lot of fetishes. Well I wouldn't call them fetishes, more like extreme likes. According to most fetishes are needed to get off. I don't need anything to get off too other then my hand and imagination.  But this blog is letting all my kink out and it's been so much fun doing it. It's like I get to talk to people who understand and I am really loving it. I thought the pic above kinda added to my spandex and sports gear fetish.

I know when my spandex fetish happened. It was the late 80's when spandex really got big. I was on the school bus on the way home, I had to been no later then the 11th grade, and saw one of the football jocks standing on the sidewalk, in blue and red bike shorts and crop t-shirt. I thought OMG, I swear I prob got boned up right there. It was amazing. I had to get me some spandex. So, as it would be, I worked right next to a sporting good store and I went over there before work and bought some spandex. At the time and me being 16, it was a lot of money to spend but I didn't care. I got a pair of Speedo bike shorts type swimwear with purple on one side and white and black horizontal stripes on the other side. Then I got a pair of running tights. All in all it was prob 60-70 bucks but when the teenage horny mind has to have something, well price knows no limits. I ran back to my car and put them in the car and under the stairs. I went to work and for the next 4 hours they were the only things I could think about. And time just drug on and on.. OMG, I thought it would never end. But I got off work and drove the 30 mins home. I now had to figure out how to get them in the house. I grabbed them in the bag and just ran in the house. I don't think I stopped. I went to my room and immediately striped down. I was hard in an instant and having 8c, it's not easy to hide, so i was glad it waited till I got naked. I pulled on the Speedo shorts first and just felt them on my body. My cock just straining in them. I was leaking all over them. After a few I pulled them off and put on the running tights. They were strange to put on, it was similar to panty hose to me, you had to pull them up. It felt weird. Also these had a liner, which I haven't seen since. Again my cock strained. I pulled them off and laid on my bed and jerked off. I couldn't believe I had two pairs of spandex. The part I think killed me was no one saw me in them for prob two more years.

My fetish continued until I got in to singlets. I have seen them in High School and had to have one. This was prob when I was 18 or 19. There was a local store that sold them, I went up to it and bought three. One blue, one red and one reversible made out of nylon. I actually still have all of these, its hard to believe. I have wrestled in them a few times, which I'm not a fan of submission wrestling, erotic yes, actually wrestling not so much.

I have since discovered more and more guys into it. Things like the Skin Tight parties in NYC and other cities proved it. I wish I was in better shape to wear it now. I will be just have to focus. My current spandex obsession are UnderArmour and Biking Gear. There is a popular biking trail near me that always has bikers in their biking spandex shorts and shirts. I went bike shopping a few years ago and went to a bike shop on the trail and when I was in the parking lot. I was sitting, a guy pulled the bike off his bike rack. Was getting it ready, he was wearing, baggy gym shorts or doinger shorts as I call them, and I put the iPod away or something then looked back in my he was bending over taking his shorts of to reveal the hottest ass.

I also love Under Armour, the shirts, tights, shorts you name it, Its' just hot to see on a guy. I would love to have a boy to dress up in these. I like so many things not just leather.

Speedos my second fetish

Well, I hope you enjoyed the first fetish and this one is not too different. But my second fetish is Speedos. There is something the way the spandex fits my cock and balls and feels across my ass. I hope to get back in to shape to wear them, but I always loved wearing them to the pool and have someone rub my ass in them.

This one is very similar to my underwear fetish. I first noticed them with Greg Louganis. I used to jerk off to him in his speedos all the time. Then I would notice all the guys in speedos in the Olympics. So I would watch Diving, which gave you the best view of speedos, then swimming and water polo.

I will say before I tried them, I thought they were just underwear fitting. But boy was I wrong. I have mentioned my first time trying them on. I was just amazed how tight they were. That was the fit I had been looking for. Having a big cock and a hefty set of balls (although at the time I had no clue), I loved the support they gave me and just felt amazing. I knew I had to have a pair. I got one that was two sizes too big but it was prob when I was 18 when I got my first really great speedo. It was amazing. I was tall thin and hung. I showed and still do a great box in speedos. So I would get the looks. Which I loved showing off my cock, and some what still do. I had a few experiences of guys in speedos as well, but they have been few and far between.

I later joined the gay swim team in town and when i went I had so many speedos, that I don't think I wore the same pair twice. If I did it wasn't much. But for a year and 4x a week I swam. There was another guy on the team who did the same. We never really got to talk other then once on AOL, which tells you how long ago that was.

But this ties in to spandex which is up next. I hope you enjoy these insights. They are fun for me to do

Underwear, My First Fetish

I know just seeing this pic for some will take them back to the 80's! Well this is what I consider my very first fetish. Underwear. Before the age of 13 I wore FTL tighty whities. I hated them. They would always loose their shape and having a big package... that I didn't know till later, kept falling out. But then the Jim Palmer ads came out and I saw bikini briefs. I had no clue about them but I can't tell you how many times I jerked off to Jim in his Elance briefs. OMG, I had two or three magazines in my room and no one ever knew I jerked off to it. So this was my porn, well this and bodybuilding magazines. There was another ad I used too, the classic Calvin Klein, in just the fitted tighy whities leaning against the stone. I was in heaven.

Just seeing guys in hot skimpy underwear got me going. After a few months I had to get some. So when we went on a family shopping trip, which we did often. I went to the underwear section and my heart was beating fast. Before me was about 30 different patters, colors and styles. I was in sensory overload. I didn't know what to get. So there was a brown, blue and green pair I got. They were Brut, if anyone remembers them. They were polyester and had a lot of patterns. Every time we'd go back I'd get more. I started wearing bikinis at 13 and I didn't buy any tighty whities, till about age 22. Hell it was 19 before I got a solid pair of white undies.

Underwear become a big part of my life. I would match it to what I wore on occasion and pick out undies for certain occasions. My criteria for underwear was they had to be skimpy and hold everything in place. I hated undies that didn't. So the 80's were perfect for bikini wearing. I think just about everyone wore them at one time or another. The colors and patters were awesome. Then came the boxer brief from CK. I got them as every other gay man did and they drove me nuts. They bunched up, gave no support and I had to get rid of them. So, a few years later I sold them to a guy who wanted them for $20. Which was prob 8 bucks more then I paid for them.

Underwear became part of my sexual activities. I would wear hot pairs when I knew I was going to get lucky or going on a trick. I would ask guys if they had hot underwear. Then request they wear them. I would rub the pouch and ass and get guys off. I loved them to do it to me as well. Then I started asking for undies. If it was a particularly hot guy, I would ask for his undies and I was surprised that about 90% agreed. I guess they were flattered. I would then go home and jerk off to them remembering the encounter.

Even today if I see a guy in hot undies I go bonkers. Its just fucking awesome to me. When i meet a guy into undies its kinda like a brotherhood. When you can talk undies with another guy it's awesome. I think there are a lot more guys into undies then they let on. Cause sometimes when I talk about it they go "I Love undies too" Which when you think about it, as fetishes underwear is pretty tame.