Big Week for me

I am not good at updating this, so I guess i need a boy to keep up the blog! It would be nice. I run a personal blog, an underwear blog, a geeky blog and a professional blog. So by the time it comes to doing more personal stuff here and my other personal blog I am tapped out.

Last Tuesday I met a friend's Sir to teach me some rope work. I was super excited about going and learning, but a little nervous. But i had talked to this sir and he was very nice and laid back. We talked on the phone a few times to that put me at ease. The week before I had been offered an "educational" session and the guy wanted me to be the boy and demanded I do what he tells me with out safe words and that just didn't sound right to me. I didn't want to put myself in that situation without knowing someone, so I declined.

I got to his loft and we sat and talked for about 15 minutes or so, about all sorts of things not just bondage. Then we started with some basic rope skills. Which I discovered was much easier then I thought. I was shown two ways to restrain boys. Both were easy and very safe. He demonstrated on me and then I tried it on him. I felt very comfortable and it really helped me a lot. This is what I needed a mentor to show me some things and then let me go off my own and experiment. Which seems to be easier then done. I placed an ad on Craigs List to find a boy to take with me and have me practice on him next time. But, we went on for about an hour or so doing rope. There is so much to learn but I got a solid foundation.

Later that day, a guy answered a post I had on CL from like a month ago. It was about sneakers and he liked to get tied up in his jock and sneaks. Which I had to do it and go see this guy. The only down side is he wasn't into me, but wanted me to him up, as i did. I used the skills I learned earlier in the day. The first tie session was ropes around the chest, mid session and above the knees and he couldn't get out. He seriously was impressed with my rope work. He couldn't get out.

The next set he wanted to be hog tied and I hadn't done it so I don't think I did well but he seemed to like it. I tied his wrists first, then his knees, and finally his ankles. THen took a rope and tied the feet and wrists together. At this point he complimented me on my rope skills. Which was awesome, then he said he liked it tighter, So I got the rope and pulled it tighter. The hog tie was good in practice but visually it wasn't, but he enjoyed it. We then parted ways and I got to keep his jock as present for doing good work. Well I told him to give it to me and as a good boy he did.

He is very close to me and a bi jock boy and was a little cocky, I would have loved to have broken his attitude and made him a boy, but he was more into the sexual side and wasn't into me. Then on the way home he texted me to come back and jerk him off, which I would have declined had I gotten it. This was a one time experience and I am looking for a boy.

I have met some good guys lately and hope to meet more. If you are reading this feel free to contact me at atlantadom2010(at)gmail(dot)com

Boys Bill of Rights

Every boy who has reconciled his submissive nature with the societal pressures of masculine independence deserves to be proud of himself.

It takes more balls to abdicate those conventions and submit to the right guy than it does to homogenize and gentrify your sexual and emotional needs.

That pride can and must be fostered by a Dom, Big Brother, or Sir with a firm hand, a sharp mind, and a good heart.

In response to too many phone calls I've received recently from boys in distress, I've drafted the following bill of boys' rights. If you're in support of securing and fostering a boy's development and pride in his submission, make yourself heard.

The boys' Bill of Rights:

1. Every boy has the right to have his body, intellect, and emotions protected by his Dom.
2. Every boy has the right to choose the man whom he serves and to discontinue that service and take his leave without being subjected to physical, mental, or emotional abuse.
3. Every boy has the right to be cared for, disciplined appropriately, and allowed to feel pride in his submission.
4. Every boy has the right to protected sex if he so wishes.
5. Every boy has the right to privacy if he so wishes. No boy can be blackmailed, publicly humiliated, or physically coerced into service without his expressed desire to be so.
6. Every boy has the right to defend himself from physical, sexual, and emotional abuse.
7. Every boy has the right to consent or not to consent to sexual activities.
8. Every boy has the right to seek refuge, counsel, and advice from other subs and Doms without the expectation of sex, money, or any other service in return.
9. Every boy has the right to a physically and emotionally available circle of friends.
10. Every boy has the right to protect his own possessions and finances against intercession, theft, and non-consensual acquisition.

SIRS: Refer to this profile or copy and paste this Bill of Rights into your own if you wish to let subs know how you feel about their rights.

subs, boys, and pups: Refer to this profile or include the Bill in your own and take a stand against boys and abuse.

-LaboursLost

This was written by LaboursLost on Recon and a great guy on top of that. I firmly believe in this and I hope it will spread and more will take it to heart. This will cut down on many of the Transgressions on boys, for a lack of better word.

For me, I want a smart boy with wishes and hopes for the future, not a mindless drone. I want a boy that tells me he's unhappy, or that something is wrong, but respectfully and sincere. This is perfect for me. I plan to write more about my perfect boy soon!

Welcome to my Jouney

I have started this blog to share my journey into becoming a dom in the DBSM world. It's something I have always thought about but never really let myself get into it. I have always put up wall as to why I can't do it. The first one is I look younger then I am and appear to be very vanilla. This has kept me back for a long time, but after talking to many folks on the site FetLife, I realized that there are a whole group of people who love the understated Dom, so that gave me a renewed vigor!

I also had a great bondage experience that really woke something in me, realizing this is really what I want. I have had the relationships based on equals, but I love telling my partner what to wear, what to do in bed and such, and when you are in an equal relationship it doesn't work very well.

The last break through I had was I always felt bad about using a boy. I felt I was using someone for my own use and it made me feel bad, but after talking to some boys, I realize that if you are good to them, they have the same desire to serve as I have to be served. So its basically a win win for both of us.

This is a quick overview of me and I plan to go into more detail about what I like, some of my fantasies and my experiences through my journey.

PS The pic on the post if off the net