My Stay in Charleston and the Dissapointment

I was going to Charleston for an over night trip and I had been on Adam4adam and met this really cute beefy boy. He looked very hot and we talked for a few days and he really wanted to submit to me. Well we talked on the phone and the day before I got there he told me that he had a friend in town, this should have foreshadowed the entire trip. But, he said he could get away.

On the drive there he actually called me and I thought that was a good sign. I told him I have a friend that lives there and I have to do dinner. He said he had to leave around 8 and could come  back at 11. I told him to come over at 5:30 and stay till 7 then come back and it would be perfect.

I got to my hotel checked in and this was the plan. Then nothing. No text back, not answer on his phone so I was pissed. Then he said "oh I didn't get your texts" so I went to dinner and had a great time. This was a friend that I didn't know well but it turned out we have a lot in common. So I took my time at dinner. Now he said before he wanted a guy to come over and suck them off, so I set up a hot muscle guy, that I had to later cancel due to his schedule. So this was pissing me off.

So, I resigned to have him there at 11. He texted me and said that he would be there at 10:45. Well that time came and left. Then he said he would get his friend to drop him off at home and me come there. I"m like FUCKING A, the plan was to come to me and the directions to his house were not clear. I told him no.

So we never met. This just highlights the boys I have run across. They have delusions of being a boy but when it comes down to it, they don't follow through. It's pure fantasy for them. They have no intentions of submitting. It seems to run ramped on the guys I meet. I want to meet a cool guy thats into it. Just I"m more frustrated in myself since I should have seen the signs. But, he went and bought some stuff I like and took pics of it, so I knew he got it.

My Quesiton is how do you find a boy? Even if it's just play. What should I look for and where are good places to find them? Just really frustrated me and annoyed me.

Bondage Lesson 4, and My Charleston Trip

Well I had lesson 4. Which I found out I"m getting better and better at bondage. Which I"m very happy that I am improving. Sometimes I felt like I wasn't. This time me and limber were joined by Tallboy. My firend who's 6'8'. Which it was awesome to tie up a taller guy. We got him in a hog tie first with a harness and ankles tied up. He was there for a bit. Then we tied up his writs and ankles. He was there a bit but being married he couldn't stay out too long. He did text me this am saying he had a blast. Which I did too. Then after he left, I finally did a tie that limber couldn't get out of. I was so happy!

We are having a break for a bit, he's traveling and so am I, but the other sir teaching me will be back next week and I hope to go over there. So it will be spuratic, but I have found some gay boys to practice on. One when I go to Charleston, he's a kinda beefy shorter guy, which I love and he's new to being a sub. He's going to come to my hotel room and submit. Which is going to be awesome. We chatted this morning and he's already been instructed what to wear, he's going to buy some undies and spandex for me. I can't wait for this. It's going to be awesome, and he comes to town once a month. I need a reg boy.

I also ran across another boy local who I've talked too, he's into spandex suits and we plan to meet up. He's another beefy boy and very submissive. I have sort of run into a lot of gay boys lately. Lastly, is another local guy who's total sub and very cute. He's wanting motivation with work out goals and will start hiking with me as well. We are meeting on Friday.

So far things are going well. I'll keep you posted. I hope to blog more I just haven't been in the mood but I gotta finish the fetishes.