Saturday, July 17, 2010

To Leather or Not To Leather

One thing you may notice is to me, the BDSM lifestyle is not about all leather. I don't think you have to own leather to be a part of it. Granted I have some leather, a harness and jock. Which I love, to me I like to mix things up. I don't like doing the same scene over and over. In fact I am one of those people who doesn't like having the same thing for breakfast for more then a week.

I think leather is hot. I always have, my only down side is its expensive as fuck! Well the good stuff is and I have had experience with cheap leather and have come to the conclusion that you have to pay for good stuff and go for quality.  But I hear a few of you out there going, "Yeah man, but other gear is just as expensive" You are correct, it is but I have been into it way longer. I got into leather when I was with my ex in 1995. We went to a leather store here in Atlanta and I got a harness. The guy fit me for it and I instantly got hard. Which being 8+cut it was noticeable. My now ex, got turned on that I was hard and leaking when we did it. Then I got a cheap pair of chaps, is say this because the buckle broke, and I have since sold them to a friend. Plus I have out grown them. Meaning that was when I was a 32 waist and could pull off the twink look (I may have had the look but never had the attitude, thank god). Now I"m a tall beefy guy. Which I like being beefy I just want to tone up and be more muscle bear. I would love some chaps and more boots but since I have been a victim of the wonderful economy I have to wait on that and other gear.

I have many gear interests. I use the term gear for a lack of better word, because some of them are not traditional gear. Note a lot of the pics are of the twinky/slim boys. I have tried to find some beefy/stocky guys in gear but its been a chore.

Underwear
Underwear was my first "Fetish" for a lack of better word. I grew up in the 80's and would always jerk off to underwear pic and bodybuilding magazines. I remember having a few of the Jim Palmer Jockey Elance ads stashed under the bed for those "exploration" times when you are a teen and had to calm those hormones. I can't tell you the times I jerked off to Jim or some hot bodybuilder. This is the formation of my underwear fetish. I love briefs, thongs and jocks the best. Boxer briefs and trunks are good if they are tight. I can't stand loose ones, and boxers are OUT. I have had a love affair with underwear for almost 30 years. I got my first pair of bikini briefs when I was 13 and haven't looked back. 


Speedos
Well, speedos kinda go hand in hand with undies. I was really into undies and then the Olympics happened and I noticed all the guys in speedos for swimming, diving and water polo. I had to get a pair. There used to be a sporting goods store at the mall. When I was 15, I went in, walked around the store and saw my prey. It was a rack of different colored solid speedos. So I grabbed two and probably ran to the fitting room. I tried them on and got so horny. I didn't stay long and left them in the fitting room. But it was prob another year before i got one. It was one that was way too big, I was a 32 waist and just grabbed one and it was a 36. LOL it was a baggy speedo on me but still hot to me! I remember it was purple and pretty hot, had I gotten the right size. Then as I got older, I started wearing them in public and had drawers and drawers. When I used to swim for the gay swim team, I don't think I wore the same pair twice. Now i"m trying to get back in shape to wear them. 

Lycra/Spandex
This again is another Teen age thing. In the late 80's is when spandex really got big! I remember when guys would wear bike shorts just to wear them. I don't think guys would do it today, but back then it was awesome. I saw a football player, a beefy muscular one in bike shorts and I swear I could have shot my load right there. He had this big bulge, might I add no undies under them, you could see his cock, balls and everything. So, I got a pair of bike shorts. Which quickly managed to morph it into singlets, running tights, shirts and UnderArmour has been fucking awesome! So now I love everything spandex and one of my biggest fantasies is super hero play. I want my boy to be the hero and me be the villain, tie him up and seduce him to the dark side. I would love uniforms and masks for this. 

Suits
I really am not sure where my suit "fetish" came from. But seeing a clean cut guy in a suit drives me wild. I guess its the whole conservative thing. I have found most conservative boys tend to be big kinksters in bed. I had a guy I went out with a long time ago and he put on a tux he had for a wedding and I wore a suit and we fucked good! it was hot. I like traditional suits and tux. Some of my favorite things for a guy in a suit are: lace up shoes like wing tips (I don't like loafers with suits), suspenders that button, bow ties (bow ties are cool!) and real ones not clip on, undershirt under dress shirt, colored dress shirts although something to be said for a white shirt. And ties that match undies (oh yeah hot undies are mandatory in suits no tighy whities or boxers). 

Cowboy Gear
This is one I got into because I think I looked hot in it. I got involved with the gay rodeo association for a while and got the hat, boots, big ass buckle, tight wranglers and Garth Brooks shirts. I filled out very well. I had many people go, "You are just into  the rodeo, it looks like you have always worn the gear" Meaning i looked like I grew up and was 100% comfortable in it. I love it to this day. Although I don't fit in my wrangs but everything else I have. Boots with a jock and cowboy hat, I"m in heaven! I usually wear a 2xist thong under my wrangs to show off the crotch. It takes what I have and really enhances it! The best example of this was, I was at the GA Dome here in Atlanta for a PBR event (Professional Bull Riders) and was leaning against the wall, with one foot on the wall. A guy walked by with his arm around his girl, Looked me in the eye, looked down at my crotch and then back up to me and kept walking. I was like hell yeah. 

Baseball Gear
I love sports gear cause I was a band geek and never was a jock, well that's my on self diagnosis for my love of it. I have a Braves Uniform, pants, jersey, cleats and sox. I got the pants off ebay. I have both white and grey. I love it. I can't fit in them right now, but I'm working on it. Just going to an MLB game gets me going. Seeing hot guys in tight pants adjusting themselves LOL, well its not that but I really enjoy games. I want to get catchers gear as well.  Plus in baseball gear you have the compression shorts and cup and jock under it. My favorite cup jock is UnderAmour. It just fits awesome. Although I have issues with the new Bike cups. They tend to run small for me. I have an older one I have and will keep, but the new ones just don't give enough room. I have worn cups all day and have no problem with daily wear.

Football Gear
This is probably my newest gear interest. I have always loved football gear. Back in 2005 or so an online buddy sent me some gear he had, which included a few pairs of football pants and such. I was in heaven. I then started to search for shoulder pads. Which are expensive as fuck. Even used ones on ebay were going for 100 bucks. Which is expensive for play gear. A buddy told me about Football America. They are a football gear store, not for fetish gear but for actual play gear. I searched the football pads and found a pair that would fit me new for $39 bucks. I was like I Must have these. So I ordered them and now I have them. So I have pants, some pads, underarmour shirt, and pads. I don't have a full uniform yet. I really want one with helmet but its fucking expensive, It think more so then leather. But, I will get them in time. The football uniforms I want are: Georgia Tech, Texas Longhorns, Clemson, and either an Army or Navy one. I don't know of a pro team I like.

Sneakers
Last is not really gear but something I have gotten into the last year. I love sneakers on a guy. I keep noticing them on a guy. I was out yesterday and there was a younger guy, you know the hot muscle boy who spends all summer either on the boat or bya pool, tan wearing cargos, tight t and then some really hot sneakers with ankle sox. I was like DAMN. I have been looking more and more at guys feet. Now i don't have a foot fetish, but I love sneakers. I don't want to sniff, lick or anything like that. I saw a pic online the other day that was a guy, just in sneakers and ankle sox, jerking off while sitting in a chair and i loved it. I have always loved guys being nude except for sneakers. I want Pumas bad. My current collection are New Balance, Nike and such. I want to grow the collection.

This is just an insight to my gear fetishes. I hope you enjoyed it and any boys should know you will be put in any of this and underwear is BIG with me so.... I am loving this format and I am kinda unknown. It allows me a safe place to share my thoughts and ideas. I know a few out there know me but I hope you are enjoying this so far.... more to come!

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