What Kind of Boy Do I Want?

Well, it has been a long thought process to what I want in a boy. When I thought of Dom/Sub relationships in the past I thought the sir was in charge and the boy did what ever, no matter what, and the boy only reflected his sir. Which I knew wasn't for me. I guess I could be considered a some what romantic dom guy. I also have come to realize that just because a boy submits doesn't mean he stops having his own opinions, hopes and dreams. I don't think I could date a guy who didn't.

The qualities I want in my boy are:

1. Intelligent. I want a boy who's very smart in what ever he does. He can hold a conversation about numerous subjects and teaches me things as well. He's well spoken, thoughtful and can make judgment calls when needed
2. Ambitious - I want a boy who has a career and wants to excel in it. I don't care what that is, hell it could be fast food management, but as long as it's his passion I will support him. I don't mind having a boy who's discovering his passion and send him back to school to get it. 
3. Humorous - I want a boy who makes me laugh. I love to laugh and cut up and want a boy who's my partner in crime at times.
4. Neat and organized - I am not those things so I want a boy who can start off by picking up after me and then discovering a system to keep me organized. It is something we would work on together
5. Versatileboy - I don't think I could date a total btm. I have been reading "the Master and His Slave" blog and when I read that the sir restrained the boy, sat on his face then sat on his cock and rode him till the sir got off. I thought that was so hot. I do like to btm from time to time and would want this option.
6. Very level headed - I want a boy that's level headed and doesn't have a bad temper. I can't stand boys or anyone who just go off on someone. I don't put up with it and I won't stand for it. I know respect is earned by a boy will never earn mine if he has a bad temper. 
7. Guy next door type - Well this is my only physical requirement i have. I love boys who look like the guy next door and no one would ever figure they would be into this. This is not set in stone, but it's definitely a like. 
8. Have his own opinions - A boy should have his own opinions and should stick up for his rights. I don't think boys should be walked over and boys should say when something is wrong. I expect my boy to let me know when he's unhappy, sad, or in general whats going on with him, honest and open. With out it there will be no relationship. 
9. Mature - I had the chance to be a long distance sir for a boy. He just turned 18, although the age kept changing when i talked to him so, I wasn't sure. He was a teen and liked to play the "But I won't want to" game. Which I"m not even going to do. You be willing to come into this, with ground rules set and go from there. None of this pouting or whining. It's not what I want. If that's your thing, then I say have fun but it's not for me. 

All of these are subject to change as I grow, but I doubt they will too much. I really want to have a Dom/Sub relationship. I just have this urge to dom and do it in a loving way. I am super impressed by the "Master And His Slave" they really have a lot of what I want in a relationship. I have taken the questions from them as well so you'll see an area to ask questions so feel free to ask. I'd love to do them on a reg basis. 

I am having a bondage session this weekend, with two str8 guys but I will get to learn the basics and more advanced. I will have pictures and will share that experience with you soon@